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Lewis HowesNavy Seal EXPLAINS How To BUILD Self-Discipline & EXTREME OWNERSHIP | Jocko Willink & Lewis Howes
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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Jocko Willink on Extreme Ownership, Discipline, Humility, and Balanced Leadership
- Jocko Willink describes SEAL training and combat, saying his deepest fear was losing one of his men and that he compartmentalized his family during deployment so he could focus on his team.
- He argues that a leader owns everything in their world, including failures several levels down the chain, because blaming others stops problems from being solved and costs a leader respect.
- He says ego drives bad decisions in war, business, and marriage, and he counters it with humility, listening, detaching emotionally, and a technique he calls reflect and diminish.
- He names lack of discipline as the main thing holding most people back and says discipline equals freedom, though it is never mastered and has to be balanced against other traits.
- He closes with three truths drawn from his books (take ownership, discipline equals freedom, be balanced), defines greatness as helping other people, and describes his mission of passing on lessons and rebuilding American manufacturing.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasA leader owns everything that happens under their command
Jocko says that if a machine gunner several levels down fires in the wrong direction, it is his fault for not training and monitoring him. Blaming others makes people defensive, and then no one solves the problem.
Humility earns respect and drives improvement
Acting like you know everything makes your troops lose respect for you, while admitting what you don't know raises it. Feedback depends on humility, and Jocko says leaders should listen about 98% of the time.
Let people build the plan they will execute
Jocko explains that people who come up with the plan themselves take ownership and make it win. He contrasts an arrogant platoon commander who forced plans on the team, leading to a mutiny, with a humble one who asked the team to plan.
Listen and detach before acting
Stepping back from the firefight, or from a heated meeting or argument, lets you see more and decide better. He sits through a 38-minute meeting silently and speaks in the 39th minute.
Reflect and diminish de-escalates conflict
Telling someone to calm down makes you their opponent. Jocko mirrors their frustration at a lower intensity, then moves to solving the problem, as in his ice machine example with his wife.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesDiscipline is the root of all good qualities.
— Jocko Willink
Bullets don't have your name on it. Bullets say, "To whom it may concern," and the bullet doesn't care who you are.
— Jocko Willink
I'm not looking to win an argument, I'm looking to resolve a problem.
— Jocko Willink
If you can't think of what your mission is gonna be, go help someone.
— Jocko Willink
My life is a gift. Your life is a gift. I know that for a fact.
— Jocko Willink
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Jocko Willink
guestRetired U.S. Navy SEAL officer, leadership author (Extreme Ownership) and co-founder of Echelon Front.
Lewis Howes
hostHost of The School of Greatness podcast and author/entrepreneur.
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