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5 Small Habits That Will Change Your Life Forever

Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 đŸ”„ Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — In this episode, you’ll learn the best expert advice Mel is using right now. For this one-of-a-kind episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, Mel hand-picked the top 5 most impactful, insightful, and exciting pieces of advice and rules for life ever shared by her guests. Listen as experts give you their best advice that will transform your health, stop anxiety, make you more money, improve your confidence, know when someone is lying to you, and help you live with more meaning and purpose. This episode is the cheat sheet for the level-up in life you have been looking for. What should you listen to next? You’ll love the full podcast episodes with each of the experts featured today: Dr. Mark Hyman: “Reset Your Health in 10 Days: Advice From a Renowned MD” https://youtu.be/BA1evuRjdHo?si=s32JXHeJsqrU97Xa Dr. Luana Marques: “Harvard Professor Says THIS Is the Secret to Success (It’s Not What You Think)” https://youtu.be/5_iGYo44_C8?si=-WsJ7V8-iUbcpses Dr. Luana Marques: “Turn Anxiety Into Power: A 3-Step Process to Master Your Emotions From a Harvard Psychologist” https://youtu.be/lUvC-E3YSxE?si=56oy98l2PETNCiTX Tiffany Aliche: “5 Rules of Money: How to Make It, Save It, & Be Smarter About It” https://youtu.be/x6S63406raY?si=ZL5yclJk2Emae9fK Janine Driver: "FBI-Trained Expert Explains How to Read Body Language" https://youtu.be/zTt-IGK-dm8?si=bcKGnSkAKZ9zBmrE Judie Robbins: "Get Your Sh*t Together: This 85-Year-Old Badass Does More Than You & Me (Steal Her 7 Amazing Secrets)" https://youtu.be/UXazmvQl-58?si=IkFgyCupRNQfdfZZ For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: http://www.melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-168 Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 00:00 Intro 03:26: You’re only days away from optimal health 6:54: The 10 day health reset that will change your life from the inside out 11:30: You are the expert of your own health 16:24: Creating a pause to stop anxiety 23:57: How to create your money list 27:45: Categorizing your expenses use the ABC method 36:33: A hack to make you look more confident 39:56: How to recognize when someone is lying to you 44:14: An 86-year-old powerhouse’s morning routine that will help you live longer 49:32: What to do when you’re at a point in your life where you’re really lonely 52:02: How do you stay young at heart #podcast #expert #habits — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah

Mel RobbinshostDr. Mark HymanguestGuestguest
Apr 29, 202456mWatch on YouTube ↗

At a glance

WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Five Research-Backed Micro-Habits To Transform Health, Anxiety, Money, Confidence, Longevity

  1. Mel Robbins curates five of the most-loved expert segments from her podcast, each offering a small, practical habit that can dramatically improve everyday life. Dr. Mark Hyman outlines a 10-day food-based reset to activate the body’s self-healing systems. Harvard psychologist Dr. Luana Marques shares a simple writing-based pause to interrupt anxiety spirals, while money expert Tiffany Aliche reframes budgeting as a ‘money list’ that helps you say yes to what matters. Body language analyst Janine Driver teaches quick posture and gesture tweaks to project confidence and spot deception, and 86‑year‑old Judy Robbins reveals daily routines and a service-focused mindset for staying energetic, purposeful, and less lonely with age.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

You can dramatically improve how you feel in just 10 days by changing what you eat.

Dr. Mark Hyman explains that removing inflammatory foods (gluten, dairy, sugar, alcohol, processed foods) and focusing on protein, vegetables, nuts, seeds, berries, and healthy fats can reduce symptoms from various conditions by up to 70% in under a week, because your body rapidly rebuilds itself from the raw materials you consume.

Use writing to create a ‘pause’ and stop anxiety spirals.

Dr. Luana Marques recommends interrupting anxious episodes by writing down the triggering situation and your thoughts, emotions, and intended behaviors; this activates the prefrontal cortex, quiets the amygdala, and breaks the fast ping‑pong cycle that leads to avoidance and panic.

Treat your budget as a ‘yes plan’—a money list, not a punishment.

Tiffany Aliche reframes budgeting as a tool that says “yes, when/if/after,” helping you see clearly what you spend, categorize expenses (bills, usage-based bills, and choices), and then decide whether you have a ‘don’t make enough’ problem or a ‘spend too much’ problem before blindly cutting back.

Adjust your body language to instantly project more confidence.

Janine Driver teaches low, relaxed ‘steepling’ (fingertips together) and lifting your chest as if an Iron Man–style orb is pointing where the wall meets the ceiling; these subtle shifts change how others perceive you and how you feel, especially in meetings, dates, or situations where you’re being talked over.

Watch for ‘eye blocking’ as a potential sign of stress, anxiety, or lying.

Covering the eyes, looking away abruptly, fiddling with a hat, or otherwise blocking eye contact can function like a mental ‘screen lock’ that hides internal information; noticing these patterns—paired with gentle, non-accusatory questions—can help you better gauge truthfulness and emotional discomfort.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

You are only days away from optimal health.

— Dr. Mark Hyman

Just, for 10 days, change your diet and see what happens.

— Dr. Mark Hyman

If you’re in your anxious brain, get out of there by writing your thoughts, emotions, and behavior cycle.

— Dr. Luana Marques

Your budget is like your mom—she’s there to say yes, when, if, after.

— Tiffany Aliche

Where the wall meets the ceiling is a confident feeling.

— Janine Driver

10-day functional medicine health reset and food as cellular “raw material”Anxiety interruption using the thoughts–emotions–behavior cycle and writing pauseReframing budgeting into a ‘money list’ and diagnosing spending vs income issuesBody language for confidence (steepling, posture) and lie-detection (eye blocking)Daily routines, movement, and brain-stimulating practices for healthy agingCombating loneliness through purpose and service, especially hospice workMindset shifts: self-compassion, empowerment, and gratitude for the present moment

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