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How to Communicate With Confidence & Ease (From Harvard Business School’s #1 Professor)

Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — This episode will completely change the way you think about communication. What you learn will boost your influence and make you more confident. If you… Overthink what you said hours after a meeting, Freeze up when it’s your turn to talk, Or want to sound more confident without faking it… This is your blueprint for better conversations at work, in relationships, and in life. Today, Mel sits down with Dr. Alison Wood Brooks: Harvard professor, researcher, author, and one of the world’s leading experts on the science of communication. Her course at Harvard Business School, all about communication, is one of the most popular classes there – and in this episode she shares the exact methods she teaches to students at HBS. You’re going to learn the exact tools and strategies that will help you communicate with more confidence, ease, and clarity. You'll learn: -What makes conversation feel so hard and how to make it easier -The #1 mistake people make when they talk -How to feel more confident even when you're anxious, blanking out, or unsure of what to say -Why we misread people constantly (and how to stop doing it) -How to recover from awkward moments or miscommunication -The skill every great leader, parent, and partner has in common Whether you want to build better relationships, stop second-guessing yourself, or speak up with more purpose and ease, this episode will give you the science, tools, and confidence to do it. For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-338/ Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 00:00 Meet the Guest 03:23 The Harvard Blueprint for Better Communication 15:33 How to Always Have Something Interesting to Say 22:22 The Secret to Getting Better at Talking to People 36:03 How to Make Conversations More Fun and Less Awkward 42:44 Why Being Kind Makes You a Better Communicator 46:41 How to Master Small Talk and Talk to Anyone 52:01 What to Do When Someone Talks Over You 59:03 How to Handle Hurtful Comments and Difficult Conversations — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah

Alison Wood BrooksguestMel Robbinshost
Oct 30, 20251h 12mWatch on YouTube ↗

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October 30, 2025
Duration
1h 12m
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The Mel Robbins Podcast
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION

Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — This episode will completely change the way you think about communication. What you learn will boost your influence and make you more confident. If you… Overthink what you said hours after a meeting, Freeze up when it’s your turn to talk, Or want to sound more confident without faking it… This is your blueprint for better conversations at work, in relationships, and in life. Today, Mel sits down with Dr. Alison Wood Brooks: Harvard professor, researcher, author, and one of the world’s leading experts on the science of communication. Her course at Harvard Business School, all about communication, is one of the most popular classes there – and in this episode she shares the exact methods she teaches to students at HBS. You’re going to learn the exact tools and strategies that will help you communicate with more confidence, ease, and clarity. You'll learn: -What makes conversation feel so hard and how to make it easier -The #1 mistake people make when they talk -How to feel more confident even when you're anxious, blanking out, or unsure of what to say -Why we misread people constantly (and how to stop doing it) -How to recover from awkward moments or miscommunication -The skill every great leader, parent, and partner has in common Whether you want to build better relationships, stop second-guessing yourself, or speak up with more purpose and ease, this episode will give you the science, tools, and confidence to do it. For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-338/ Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 00:00 Meet the Guest 03:23 The Harvard Blueprint for Better Communication 15:33 How to Always Have Something Interesting to Say 22:22 The Secret to Getting Better at Talking to People 36:03 How to Make Conversations More Fun and Less Awkward 42:44 Why Being Kind Makes You a Better Communicator 46:41 How to Master Small Talk and Talk to Anyone 52:01 What to Do When Someone Talks Over You 59:03 How to Handle Hurtful Comments and Difficult Conversations — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah

SPEAKERS

  • Alison Wood Brooks

    guest
  • Mel Robbins

    host

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, featuring Alison Wood Brooks and Mel Robbins, How to Communicate With Confidence & Ease (From Harvard Business School’s #1 Professor) explores harvard Professor Reveals Simple TALK Framework To Transform Every Conversation Mel Robbins interviews Harvard Business School professor Alison Wood Brooks about the science of everyday conversation and how better communication can upgrade every area of life, from work to family to dating.

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