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Remember THIS When The World Feels Overwhelming | The Mel Robbins Podcast

In this important and special episode, you will hear the beautiful, profound, and comforting words that are needed in the world right now.

Mel RobbinshostDr. Thema Bryantguest
Oct 9, 202329mWatch on YouTube ↗

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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Finding Inner Home: Staying Human When The World Feels Overwhelming

  1. Mel Robbins invites psychologist and minister Dr. Thema Bryant to discuss how to cope when global and personal crises make the world feel terrifying and out of control.
  2. Dr. Bryant explains the concept of “homecoming” — staying connected to your authentic self during both past and ongoing trauma — and emphasizes bodily awareness, emotional honesty, and releasing self-judgment.
  3. They explore practical ways to balance being informed with not becoming overexposed to distressing news, including spiritual practices, storytelling, community connection, and mindful media consumption.
  4. The conversation centers on creating a “soft place to land” within yourself and your communities, holding onto hope, and finding small, meaningful ways to care and contribute without becoming paralyzed by fear or guilt.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Use your body as a guide to understand your emotions.

Notice changes in sleep, appetite, irritability, or numbness; these physical signals often reveal how overwhelmed, anxious, or shut down you are, and help you connect feelings to their causes.

Create a non-judgmental “soft landing” for yourself.

Drop the inner criticism about how you “should” feel or act; instead, meet your current reactions (crying, numbness, overthinking, shutdown) with compassion and acceptance as understandable responses to your life experience.

Balance being informed with avoiding emotional overexposure.

Aim to know what’s happening in the world without consuming a 24-hour visual news cycle; recognize that the amount of media you watch is not a measure of how much you care.

Differentiate between healing from past trauma and coping with ongoing trauma.

When harm is continuous (e.g., living amid conflict or chronic community violence), you can’t wait for it to end before you care for yourself; instead, practice staying near to yourself and nourishing your humanity in the midst of it.

Nourish yourself through spiritual practices and storytelling.

Meditation, prayer, sacred texts, connection with nature (even in visualization), and sharing your story with nonjudgmental others can restore hope, dignity, and a sense of being seen and held.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

Everyone is feeling it. We just show it in different ways.

— Dr. Thema Bryant

The number of hours or minutes I consume the news is not the measure of my care.

— Dr. Thema Bryant

Some of us do not get the luxury of everything being post-trauma.

— Dr. Thema Bryant

Trauma affects us but it doesn’t define us.

— Dr. Thema Bryant

This moment does not have the final say on my life or the life of my community.

— Dr. Thema Bryant

Read the available transcript
Emotional overwhelm and collective trauma in response to global crises and newsThe concept of homecoming: reconnecting with your authentic selfBodily awareness and emotional honesty as tools for self-understandingBalancing staying informed with avoiding overexposure to distressing mediaCoping with continuous traumatic stress versus past, resolved traumaSpiritual practices, narrative therapy, and community connection as nourishmentReleasing self-judgment, navigating guilt, and reimagining a hopeful future

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