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The Mel Robbins PodcastStop Wasting Your Time: The Scientific Way to Stop Procrastination and Get Control of Your Day
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At a glance
WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Nine practical rules to reclaim time, energy, and weekly joy
- Laura Vanderkam reframes time management as creating room for what you want to do, not cramming in more obligations, grounded in the reality that everyone has 168 hours per week.
- She shares findings from time-diary research and a nine-week experiment (about 150 participants) showing improved “time satisfaction” when people follow nine simple rules.
- Key ideas include stabilizing sleep with a consistent bedtime, weekly planning (ideally Friday), using movement to boost afternoon energy, and defining “habits” weekly rather than daily.
- The conversation emphasizes shifting your personal narrative from “I have no time” to “I have some discretionary pockets,” then protecting those pockets for effortful, rejuvenating activities and relationships.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasReplace “no time” with “not as much time as I want.”
Vanderkam argues almost everyone has some discretionary time; the wording shift unlocks practical problem-solving: how to use limited pockets better and gradually expand them.
Use the 168-hour week to stop overreacting to a crunched day.
After 40 hours of work and ~56 hours of sleep, many still have ~72 hours for other responsibilities and choices—enough to find a few hours for reading, friends, or hobbies when viewed across a week.
A consistent bedtime creates orderly sleep and more energy.
Many people get enough total sleep weekly but feel exhausted due to irregular nights; setting a bedtime (plus a “wind-down alarm”) improved reported adequacy of sleep/energy in her study group.
Plan the week once—preferably Friday—to reduce anxiety and improve follow-through.
Weekly planning should include what must happen and what you want to happen across career, relationships, and self; Friday planning leverages low-stakes time, enables scheduling calls/appointments, and prevents Sunday “scaries.”
Move before 3:00 PM to prevent the afternoon productivity cliff.
Short bursts of activity (e.g., brisk walk) can rapidly raise energy and focus; Vanderkam’s deeper point is that proactively inserting a break builds agency instead of living in reactive mode.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotes“I want you to make time for the things you want to do.”
— Laura Vanderkam
“There’s a big difference between not as much as I want and none.”
— Laura Vanderkam
“There are 168 hours in a week.”
— Laura Vanderkam
“Exercise doesn’t take time, it makes time.”
— Laura Vanderkam
“We don’t say, ‘Where did the time go?’ when we actually remember where the time went.”
— Laura Vanderkam
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