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Marketing so good, you couldn’t tell it’s a scam

*$1M Attention Guide: 15+ ways to get eyeballs on what you're building* https://clickhubspot.com/um02 Episode 871: Shaan Puri ( https://x.com/ShaanVP ) and Sam Parr ( https://x.com/theSamParr ) talk about the diabolical marketing tactics that De Beers used to convince every man to spend 20% of his annual income on a diamond. — Show Notes: (0:00) Intro (2:15) A Brief History of Diamonds (8:25) The Marketing Genius of De Beers (18:15) Lab-Grown Diamonds (20:00) Shaan Goes Into the Back Room at the Jeweler (23:15) Bitcoin’s Marketing Genius (26:55) The Greatest Generation (28:10) Pronoia. Be It. — Links: • Any Human Ever - https://anyhumanever.com/ • ogilvy on advertising - https://a.co/d/0iaTZqIf — Check Out Sam's Stuff: • Hampton (joinhampton.com): My community for founders. Average member does $25m/year. Many of the guests are members. Get after it...apply: http://joinhampton.com/mfm — Check Out Shaan's Stuff: • Shaan's weekly email - https://www.shaanpuri.com • Visit https://www.somewhere.com/mfm to hire worldwide talent like Shaan and get $500 off for being an MFM listener. Hire developers, assistants, marketing pros, sales teams and more for 80% less than US equivalents. • Mercury - Shaan uses Mercury across all of his companies. you can too: http://mercury.com/ Mercury is a fintech company, not an FDIC-insured bank. Banking services provided by Choice Financial Group, Column, N.A., Members FDIC • I run all my newsletters on Beehiiv and you should too + we're giving away $10k to our favorite newsletter, check it out: beehiiv.com/mfm-challenge My First Million is a HubSpot Original Podcast // Brought to you by HubSpot Media // Production by Arie Desormeaux // Editing by Ezra Bakker Trupiano /

Shaan PurihostSam Parrhost
Oct 14, 202632mWatch on YouTube ↗

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At a glance

WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

How diamonds (and Bitcoin) used marketing to manufacture lasting value

  1. Shaan argues the modern diamond market is a marketing-created phenomenon, where value and social norms were engineered rather than naturally inevitable.
  2. He describes how De Beers consolidated diamond supply, rationed distribution, and used coordinated advertising, PR, and cultural placement to make diamond engagement rings feel mandatory.
  3. He outlines specific persuasion tactics attributed to De Beers: emotional repositioning (“a diamond is forever”), anchoring spending norms (months of salary), and introducing the four Cs to standardize language and expand pricing tiers.
  4. The conversation shifts to lab-grown diamonds as a disruptive force, with Shaan claiming wholesale prices have collapsed while retail pricing remains relatively high due to markups and consumer friction.
  5. They broaden the lens to modern perception-shaping, with Shaan likening Bitcoin’s memes and social signals to the same kind of marketing machinery, and Sam noting perception can be changed over time across industries.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Diamonds shifted from “rare treasure” to “managed scarcity” through supply consolidation.

Shaan explains that after large diamond discoveries in South Africa, diamonds became plentiful, threatening high prices; industry leaders responded by buying up mines and consolidating supply into De Beers. He describes De Beers as controlling most supply and rationing diamonds to keep prices high.

De Beers solved a demand problem by linking diamonds to emotion, not utility.

Shaan says De Beers hired an agency during the Great Depression to fundamentally reposition diamonds away from wealth/royalty and toward love, popularizing the “a diamond is forever” message. He frames this as moving diamonds out of a utility comparison (rent/food) into an emotional category.

They created a “must-buy moment” by turning diamonds into a cultural ritual.

Shaan describes De Beers engineering demand around engagements by influencing Hollywood scenes, feeding celebrity engagement stories to magazines/newspapers, and even sending a speaker to schools to teach teenage girls about diamonds and the “four Cs.” The result, he argues, was a new social expectation: proposals should include a diamond ring.

Specialized grading language enabled price discrimination on hard-to-verify quality.

Shaan argues that since most consumers can’t visually distinguish diamond grades, the industry benefited from standard terminology like the four Cs to support pricing tiers. He likens this to wine language and professionalization that helps justify wide price gradients despite small perceivable differences.

Lab-grown diamonds broke the scarcity story, forcing incumbents into narrative warfare.

Shaan says lab-grown diamonds are now the majority of the market and can be chemically indistinguishable, making them a major threat to natural diamonds’ pricing narrative. He describes De Beers first trying to discredit lab diamonds as “fake,” then launching its own lab product and pricing it very cheaply to widen perceived separation between “real” and lab.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

Try $148.

— Shaan Puri

It's the price of dinner. You could have a diamond ring or dinner is the trade right now.

— Shaan Puri

The whole thing is theater, and I love it.

— Shaan Puri

Words are so great, man.

— Sam Parr

Paranoia is feeling like everything is working against you, and pronoia is feeling like the universe is kinda conspiring in your favor.

— Shaan Puri

Diamond price declines and lab-grown costsSouth Africa diamond discovery and supply abundanceDe Beers consolidation and supply controlGreat Depression repositioning to love“A diamond is forever” and engagement ritual creationFour Cs, grading systems, and pricing tiersLab-grown disruption and incumbent response tactics (discrediting, undercutting)

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