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Life Is Short: 103-Year-Old Shares 5 Lessons For The Next 50 Years Of Your Life | Gladys McGarey

At the age of 103, not only is today’s guest the oldest I’ve ever welcomed onto my podcast, but she’s also the oldest returning guest, too!

Dr. Rangan ChatterjeehostDr. Gladys McGareyguest
Jun 12, 20241h 24mWatch on YouTube

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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

103-Year-Old Doctor Gladys McGarey on Love, Laughter, Purpose and Aging

  1. McGarey says she lives without regrets by choosing to live through painful experiences rather than just get over them, and she credits her mother's example of finding humor in hardship, including the frog-play story.
  2. She describes her five Ls (life, love, laughter, labor, listening) as a foundation for purpose, and she and Chatterjee agree that purpose is about the attitude we bring to what we do and that it can keep growing across life.
  3. She rejects the idea of anti-aging and calls her approach aging into health, acknowledging her blindness and mobility limits while staying curious, still learning, and relying on helpers like her son John.
  4. As a physician, she argues that love is the great healer, that patients carry an inner healing colleague, and that doctors must listen and try to love even difficult patients.
  5. She shares practical habits, including fresh food, water, movement with her walker, knitting, and rest, and says the message she most wants to leave is that love is the great healer.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Live through difficulties rather than just getting over them

McGarey says carrying past regrets is like a heavy bag that gives you a stiff neck, and she prefers to understand an experience, do what's needed, and move on.

Humor can transform painful moments

After McGarey landed in the pond during the frog play, her mother asked the family how to help Gladys get people to laugh with her, not at her. McGarey says that lesson shaped her whole life and career.

Purpose is as much attitude as activity

McGarey says it is more productive to find purpose in everything you do, and Chatterjee suggests purpose is less about what we do than the attitude we bring, which she affirms.

Aging can be framed as growth

McGarey prefers 'aging into health' to anti-aging, saying she can do things now, such as talking to people worldwide, that she could not do at 95, despite being legally blind and using a walker.

You are never too old to learn

She says she found her voice at 93 after a dream in which Jesus accepted her as a child, which led her to stop asking others to check her work. She says something surprises her every day.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

It's sort of like having a bag of heavy things on your shoulder, and if you keep looking at them all the time, you're gonna get a stiff neck.

— Dr. Gladys McGarey

Laughter without love is cruel. It breaks up family. It's cold. It causes wars. It's terrible. But laughter with love is joy and happiness.

— Dr. Gladys McGarey

I get up in the morning, and I think, "Wow, another day." You know? Because it's, to me, um, it's my choice as to whether I'm going to live this day or just drag myself through it. And I don't wanna just drag myself. I've done enough of that.

— Dr. Gladys McGarey

It's the ability to take things that come your way and just tuck a little bit of humor into it, and it changes everything.

— Dr. Gladys McGarey

If Jesus can accept you, why can't you accept yourself?

— Dr. Gladys McGarey

Read the available transcript
Living without regretsHumor as resiliencePurpose and the five LsAging into healthLove as medicineListening and compassion in medicineDaily health habits and adapting to limits

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SPEAKERS

  • Dr. Rangan Chatterjee

    host

    British physician and host of the Feel Better, Live More podcast.

  • Dr. Gladys McGarey

    guest

    Centenarian physician and pioneer in holistic medicine sharing life and health lessons from a long medical career.

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