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Modern Romance Interview | Dr. John & Julie Gottman | Talks at Google

Marriage experts Drs. John and Julie Gottman discuss how to make a marriage work and common misconceptions about relationships.

Logan UryhostDr. John GottmanguestDr. Julie Gottmanguest
Dec 19, 20151h 3mWatch on YouTube

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EPISODE INFO

Released
December 19, 2015
Duration
1h 3m
Channel
Talks at Google
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION

Marriage experts Drs. John and Julie Gottman discuss how to make a marriage work and common misconceptions about relationships. They'll also cover what they found in their research with homosexual couples, how to build trust, and why you should keep your standards high. Part of our series of Talks at Google on Modern Romance. Moderated by Googler Logan Ury. World renowned for his work on marital stability and divorce prediction, John Gottman has conducted 40 years of breakthrough research with thousands of couples. His work on marriage and parenting has earned him numerous major awards. Dr. Gottman was one of the Top 10 Most Influential Therapists of the past quarter-century by the Psychotherapy Networker. He is the author of 190 published academic articles and author or co-author of 40 books. Julie is the co-founder and President of The Gottman Institute, and Clinical Supervisor for the Couples Together Against Violence study. A highly respected clinical psychologist, she is sought internationally by media and organizations as an expert advisor on marriage, sexual harassment and rape, domestic violence, gay and lesbian adoption, same-sex marriage, and parenting issues.

SPEAKERS

  • Logan Ury

    host

    Behavioral researcher at Google who moderates the Talks at Google session.

  • Dr. John Gottman

    guest

    Relationship researcher and co-founder of the Gottman Institute known for the “Love Lab” and the Four Horsemen framework.

  • Dr. Julie Gottman

    guest

    Clinical psychologist and co-founder of the Gottman Institute specializing in couples therapy, sex, and family relationships.

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of Talks at Google, featuring Logan Ury and Dr. John Gottman, Modern Romance Interview | Dr. John & Julie Gottman | Talks at Google explores The Gottmans on conflict patterns, trust-building, and lasting intimacy Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman explained the “Four Horsemen” (criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling) and why their presence—especially contempt—signals serious risk for relationships.

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