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Neuro-Spicy: Discussing ADHD with Dr. Kristin Carothers | What Now? with Trevor Noah Podcast

Noted clinical psychologist Dr. Kristin Carothers joins Christiana and me in discussing ADHD. We demystify the condition, how it’s diagnosed and manifests, and its impact on everything from education to relationships to professional sports.

Trevor NoahhostChristianahostDr. Kristin CarothersguestChristianahost
May 1, 20251h 31mWatch on YouTube

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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Trevor Noah and Dr. Carothers Explore Living and Loving with ADHD

  1. Dr. Carothers explains the three presentations of ADHD (hyperactive-impulsive, inattentive, and combined), that a diagnosis requires disruption in social or occupational functioning, and that everyone has some ADHD-like traits without meeting clinical criteria.
  2. The conversation covers how ADHD is missed in girls and underdiagnosed in Black children, and how a lack of cultural language and systemic barriers can leave kids labeled as bad rather than supported.
  3. Trevor shares his own experience with 'now and not now' time perception, rumination, anxiety when traveling, and how treating ADHD like a 'gremlin passenger' helps remove shame.
  4. The guests discuss relationship dynamics, including over-controlling partners, ADHD-driven arguments, and the 'press record' strategy of making sure someone is ready to listen before you speak.
  5. The episode closes on stimulant medication, the value of community and mental health care, and the idea that designing systems for ADHD brains benefits everyone.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Everyone has ADHD characteristics, but a diagnosis requires real disruption in life.

Dr. Carothers says clinical criteria require the traits to negatively affect relationships or work or school, which separates ADHD from being merely disorganized or fitting 'TikTok criteria.'

Give one command, in the room where the task should happen.

Dr. Carothers says people with ADHD lose multi-part instructions given from afar, so she recommends going to the setting, giving one polite command, waiting, praising the start, and gamifying the task.

Girls and Black children are often missed or mislabeled.

Dr. Carothers says girls often present as inattentive or are held to different cultural expectations, and that systems not built for difference can dismiss Black children as bad rather than seeing behavior as functional.

A non-ADHD partner's over-control can backfire.

Dr. Carothers says packing bags and scheduling everything stems from anxiety about forgetting, and it breeds resentment while preventing the person with ADHD from building their own systems.

Signal urgency and 'press record' before communicating.

Trevor says an ADHD brain may not be listening until cued, so saying 'I need you to listen right now' or waiting until the person is ready changes the dynamic, which Dr. Carothers describes as an antecedent intervention.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

For an ADHD brain, there are only two modes. There is now and there is not now.

— Trevor Noah

Your brain is wired to function differently in different settings. In some settings, the way that your brain functions is optimal. In other settings it's suboptimal.

— Dr. Kristin Carothers

If you listen to ADHD people and you, quote-unquote, "fix the world for them," you will live in a better world.

— Trevor Noah

We need to be in community with people and other people who have similar and dissimilar experiences, 'cause it can get very lonely.

— Dr. Kristin Carothers

We just needed somebody to speak to, and all of a sudden their grades would improve.

— Trevor Noah

Read the available transcript
Three presentations of ADHDADHD in girls and Black childrenTime blindness and 'now vs. not now'Parenting strategies for kids with ADHDADHD in romantic partnershipsStimulant medication and cultural warinessCommunity, mental health care, and removing shame

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SPEAKERS

  • Trevor Noah

    host

    Comedian and presenter, host of the "What Now? With Trevor Noah" podcast.

  • Christiana

    host

    Co-host on the "What Now? With Trevor Noah" podcast.

  • Dr. Kristin Carothers

    guest

    Clinical psychologist specializing in ADHD assessment, diagnosis, and interventions for children and adults.

  • Christiana

    host

    Co-host on the "What Now? With Trevor Noah" podcast.

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