The Divorce Expert: 86% Of People Who Divorce Remarry! Why Sex Is Causing Divorces!

All marital problems stem from two things, and that's-

What about sex? How often is sex the issue in divorce?

Oh my God.

James Sexton, the world's number one divorce lawyer, specializing in billionaires, athletes, and celebrities for over two decades.

Giving him a unique insight into how relationships fail and succeed. There's about a 56% chance that your marriage will end in divorce. Yet 86% of people remarry within five years. But most people have no idea what they are getting themselves into. And a great example of that would be prenups.

Who gets what when they break up?

Correct. And the most shocking prenup I've ever seen said that for every 10 pounds the wife gained, she would lose $10,000 a month in alimony.

10 pounds of weight?

And that was enforceable.

Do money issues lead to divorce?

Oh, it's controversial.

What's the quickest someone's gone from marriage to divorce?

48 hours.

Who cheats more, men or women?

You'll be shocked to hear it's-

Have you ever seen violence during a divorce?

They ran her over four times and stabbed her.

Jesus Christ. So here's the question then, should we get married? And then do you think love is a terrible idea?

I think it's insane to love anything, because some day that'll be gone and this thing's gonna break my heart no matter what I lose. But that's not a reason not to love, and I- I think there's something really important there.

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I'm a divorce lawyer. I'm a divorce lawyer who represents people in contested divorce and custody proceedings in court. So it's, the fact that you've never spoken to someone who does what I do is a good thing. It- it- it means that either you've not married or it means that you've successfully married to the point where you would never end up in my office. By the time someone sets foot in my office, something's gone terribly wrong in their life, because no one ever meant to meet me, no one ever meant to be in my office ever.

What is the probability that some day I do meet somebody like you and not in this context?

Well, if you marry, there's about a 56% chance that your marriage will end in divorce. Now, that doesn't take into consideration how many people may consult with a divorce lawyer because they're having difficulty in their marriage, but they choose subsequent to meeting me not to divorce for some particular reason, whether that's they don't wanna part with half of their funds or they've just decided it's easier to stay miserable and with a person, or they're staying together for the kids but they wanted to know what their rights were. So if you marry, the ch- the- the chances of meeting someone like me are- are more likely than not, if we look at it that way, 'cause it's more than 50%. So it's a, it's a high number, you know?