The Leading Sex Expert: How To Have Great Sex EVERY Time! (And Fix Bad Sex): Tracey Cox | E247

You've written 17 books on the topic of sex. So, my first question, how do we have the best sex of our lives?

That's the question that everybody wants to know. The first thing is- (bell rings)

Tracey Cox. The world's most celebrated sex expert. She's got the answers to the questions you've always wanted to know, and has the secret to a great sex life. (bell rings) There is a decline of sex, isn't there?

Yes. There's a sex recession. If you haven't had sex for a year with your partner, it is very unlikely you're gonna have sex again. (bell rings)

Oh, really? Are you hopeful that we can turn that around?

Yes, absolutely. The key thing is- (record scratches)

Women fake their orgasms.

We have known that women don't orgasm through penetrative sex since Kama Sutra, and yet most men will go, "Yeah, yeah. Yeah, I've heard about that." Women aren't having very many orgasms during partner sex. They always fake them. The way to solve the whole orgasm thing is- (bell rings)

How do we predict if someone's going to cheat on us?

Number one, being close doesn't actually protect you against infidelity. You'll become so close to your partner, they're your best friend, you just don't see them as a sexual partner anymore. If you understand how sex works, and if you can make sex good with your partner, affairs can be so preventable in so many different ways. Women get bored way quicker than men. Men don't get bored, because they get the orgasm as a reward. You need to give women interesting, erotic sex, and then they'll be interested. Otherwise, they're not gonna be interested.

I've noticed a trend that amongst my friendship group, a startling amount of them are in sexless relationships.

Yep.

What are some of the most important solutions?

If you wanna have great sex, you need... (bell rings) That's what you have to do if you want a good sex life.

I think that's phenomenal advice. I have some breaking news. And th- no, this is an emergency. I've spent the last two years writing a book, and I've written 33 laws for business, marketing, and life that I derived from all of these conversations I've had here. I traveled the world to write this book. I interviewed some of the most incredible people. I did six months of en- extensive research on scientific studies and principles to corroborate everything that I wrote into these 33 laws. And ladies and gentlemen, that book, called The Diary of a CEO: The 33 Laws for Business, Marketing, and Life, is now available for pre-order, and there are 5,000, only 5,000, signed copies, and it's first come first serve. The link is in the bio right now, so if you want that book, honestly it's the best book I've ever written. It's the book I always should've written. It's the book I also wish someone had written for me when I was starting out in my career. I'm really proud of it. I'm really, really proud of it. Really, really proud of it. And I can't wait for all of you to get to read it. It's out in August. I couldn't be more excited about this, as you can probably tell. I don't know what to sa- to say other than the words I've said to emphasize my excitement, 'cause I think it's important and I think it's really valuable. Um, link in the description. (instrumental music plays) Tracey, I reached out to my team and I told my team that I wanted to have a conversation with the individual in the world that was best and most educated and most engaging on the subject matter of sex, because I've noticed a bunch of things in my personal life, in the lives of my friends and those around me, um, and I feel like people aren't having the right types of conversation about sex. I feel like we're avoiding it as a society, and I feel like sex is so intrinsically linked to performance and wellbeing and business, and all the things I usually talk about, so they found you, and that's why you're here. So, my first question is who are you and what do you do? What is your mission?