World No.1 Divorce Lawyer: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce In 10 Years!

If you had to give one relationship ritual to stay in love, what would that be?

Once a week, tell your partner three things that you love about them and three things they could have done better.

But some people are thinking, "Well, and if I told Dave that we're gonna start writing these notes to each other, he's gonna cringe and not gonna do it."

Bull [censored] ! H- honestly, Dave can't name three things he likes about you? Really, Dave, is that a big ask? I absolutely call [censored] on that. The bigger question is: What's uncomfortable about that for you? And look, I'm not a therapist. I'm a divorce lawyer. I represent some of the most high-achieving minds, athletes, entrepreneurs, and they're just as bad at this as anybody because there's a part of us that's afraid to poke at, "What do you love about me? What am I getting wrong?" And it's not just romantic relationships. Like, my mom died ten years ago after a long battle with cancer. [gentle music] There was a lot between us that needed to be said and wasn't said. And there's a part of me that wishes she was here so that I could have apologized for some things I got wrong, but we don't do that. Because people just don't want temporary discomfort. And so I think there's something deeply courageous about love, about commitment, about saying, "I'm gonna give them the opportunity to hurt me. Like, it's scary, but I'm brave." You know, your marriage will end. It ends in death or divorce. And for two people at the end of their relationship to say, "This person helped me become the most authentic version of myself," that's the greatest gift you could give to another human being.

As you can see from this photo, I just proposed to my fiancée, and I'd like some advice on how not to mess this up. Like, if my fiancée ends up walking into your practice, what is the reason she's likely to end up there?

The number one reason that I'm gonna have a woman sitting across from me divorcing someone who's a great provider, a great protector, is-

That is not obvious to everybody.

And it'll keep me in business for the rest of my life.

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