Reggie Yates Reveals The Secret To Staying Driven & Reaching Your Potential | E90

Reggie Yates Reveals The Secret To Staying Driven & Reaching Your Potential | E90

The Diary of a CEOJul 26, 20211h 44m

Steven Bartlett (host), Reggie Yates (guest)

Childhood, culture, and growing up on a North London council estateWork, class, and early exposure to the creative industriesTherapy, childhood trauma, and ‘getting to know your shadow’Public failure, cancel culture, and responsibility with a platformCareer pivots: from kids’ TV and radio to documentaries and filmLeadership, mentorship, and empowering young creativesLove, relationships, fatherhood, and being a ‘moving target’

In this episode of The Diary of a CEO, featuring Steven Bartlett and Reggie Yates, Reggie Yates Reveals The Secret To Staying Driven & Reaching Your Potential | E90 explores reggie Yates On Turning Pain Into Purpose, Power And Potential Reggie Yates reflects on his three-decade journey from a North London council estate to acclaimed filmmaker, unpacking how culture, class and childhood shaped his drive and values. He explains how early exposure to creative work, strong African family values, and carefully chosen mentors helped him resist destructive cycles and redefine success as fulfillment, not fame or money.

Reggie Yates On Turning Pain Into Purpose, Power And Potential

Reggie Yates reflects on his three-decade journey from a North London council estate to acclaimed filmmaker, unpacking how culture, class and childhood shaped his drive and values. He explains how early exposure to creative work, strong African family values, and carefully chosen mentors helped him resist destructive cycles and redefine success as fulfillment, not fame or money.

The conversation explores cancel culture, therapy, father wounds, ego, relationships, and leadership, showing how Reggie transformed public failure and childhood trauma into greater self-awareness and responsibility. He details his shift away from mainstream entertainment toward purpose-led documentaries, film, and business ventures that create opportunities for others.

Reggie also discusses the complexity of love and dating as a ‘moving target’, the challenge of raising children with privilege when you grew up with struggle, and why deep understanding matters more than unconditional love alone. Ultimately, he frames his potential as unlimited, so long as he continues to see clearly, communicate honestly, and align his work with his purpose.

Key Takeaways

Fulfillment, not external success, is the real measure of happiness.

Reggie distinguishes between achievement and genuine fulfillment. ...

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Early exposure to aligned work can permanently expand your sense of possibility.

As an eight-year-old actor on the sitcom ‘Desmond’s’, Reggie saw Black people who looked like his family enjoying their work on set, which contradicted his grandparents’ experience of work as something to hate and endure. ...

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Your intentions don’t erase the impact when you hurt people with a platform.

After making comments that offended the Jewish community, Reggie’s instinct was to defend his intentions. ...

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Knowing your ‘shadow’ and triggers is essential to growth and healthier relationships.

Through years of therapy, Reggie learned that a major trigger is having his character questioned. ...

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Leadership is about people, environment, and sometimes making hard personnel decisions.

Reggie sees his greatest leadership strengths as people management and understanding actors from the inside; his weakness is wanting everyone to be happy all the time, which can delay necessary tough calls. ...

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You must define your own path rather than be defined by your upbringing or trauma.

Coming from a single-parent household on benefits, surrounded by normalized dysfunction, Reggie consciously chose not to be defined by that environment. ...

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Healthy relationships require understanding and friendship, not just unconditional love.

Reggie has moved from seeking a ‘female version’ of himself to prioritizing deep understanding, cultural alignment, and genuine friendship. ...

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Notable Quotes

Shortening that distance, for me, in the lives of others, is what success feels like.

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Your intentions mean nothing if you hurt people.

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So many people want the end result, but don’t respect or understand the value in the journey.

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You’ve got to be complete to meet someone who’s complete, to begin something new together.

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Anything that I’ve wanted to do and I’ve really worked for, I’ve achieved… so I feel like I can do anything.

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Questions Answered in This Episode

When you first realized your comments had deeply hurt the Jewish community, what was the single most challenging conversation you had during that repair process, and what did you learn in that specific moment that you didn’t learn in therapy?

Reggie Yates reflects on his three-decade journey from a North London council estate to acclaimed filmmaker, unpacking how culture, class and childhood shaped his drive and values. ...

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On ‘Pirates’, was there a concrete instance where you knew you had to remove or replace someone from the team for the sake of the environment, and how did you balance your desire for everyone to be happy with that hard leadership decision?

The conversation explores cancel culture, therapy, father wounds, ego, relationships, and leadership, showing how Reggie transformed public failure and childhood trauma into greater self-awareness and responsibility. ...

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You’ve described being the only Black person on many sets as a child; if you could redesign one of those early productions from scratch today, what structural or creative changes would you make to ensure a truly inclusive environment for an eight‑year‑old version of you?

Reggie also discusses the complexity of love and dating as a ‘moving target’, the challenge of raising children with privilege when you grew up with struggle, and why deep understanding matters more than unconditional love alone. ...

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You walked away from prime-time TV and Radio 1 because they no longer aligned with your values—if you had stayed purely for the money, how do you think that would have changed your mental health and the type of films and businesses you’re now able to create?

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Given your belief that your potential is unlimited, how do you practically distinguish between an ambitious goal that’s truly aligned with your ‘gift to see and communicate’ and a tempting opportunity that would actually pull you away from your purpose?

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Transcript Preview

Steven Bartlett

Reggie Yates. He's a critically acclaimed filmmaker, a writer, a director, and an entrepreneur.

Reggie Yates

The first time I saw a machine gun was in my estate at, like, nine years old when the police were raiding a flat on my floor because there was all kinds of craziness there. And we were just playing on the balcony. As a teenager presenting kids TV with Air Force 1s and a Mecha Traxxas, it says something. I'm on the BBC, and I'm dressed like the boys that you cross the street from. Subsequently, you know, I've had kids come up to me, "Bro, I loved watching you because we dressed the same, we talked the same, and you were doing that." And when people say things like that to you, strangers, it's so powerful. Uh, for me, empowering others is a huge part of my drive right now, working with young, talented people. And I love that I have that relationship with people because I never had it growing up. There was always a distance between me and the person that was helping guide me. Shortening that distance, for me, in the lives of others, is what success feels like.

Steven Bartlett

Reggie Yates. He's a critically acclaimed filmmaker, a writer, a director, and an entrepreneur. And over the last three decades, he's been on our screens. And through that time, the world has changed, the platforms have changed, and he has certainly changed. He's been involved in scandals, wild success, and unfortunate failure. Reggie's work as a filmmaker is extraordinarily diverse, and he's traveled across the world, meeting those that have oppressed and those that have been oppressed. And this conversation is the same, incredibly diverse. We'll touch on everything from love, relationship struggles, family, mental health, ambition, cancel culture, and everything in between. Thank you, Reggie. Thank you for your honesty, because I know that the people that are about to listen to this podcast are gonna take a tremendous amount of important value from it. So without further ado, I'm Steven Bartlett, and this is the Diary of a CEO. I hope nobody is listening, but if you are, then please keep this to yourself. Reggie, um, location, environment, family. Where do you come from?

Reggie Yates

Um, I am the child of African immigrants. Uh, both my parents were born in Ghana and came to London as children. Uh, I was born on Tottenham Court Road.

Steven Bartlett

Ah.

Reggie Yates

So I'm London, London, London.

Steven Bartlett

(laughs)

Reggie Yates

And, um, I, I was raised in Holloway. I moved to South East London when I was 14, and at 18 I moved out, and I've been a Londoner ever since. And I say that because I've lived all over, you know? London's quite a tribal city-

Steven Bartlett

Mm-hmm.

Reggie Yates

... uh, between football and the club you support and the area that you're from and your connection to it. I've lived all over, and I call South London home now, even though I didn't start there and I didn't school there really.

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