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Deep Dive with Ali AbdaalHow To Build A Multi-Million $ Dating App | Shahzad Younas Founder & CEO of Muzmatch
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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
How Muzmatch was built: coding, product resets, and dating realities
- Shahzad Younas recounts how Muzmatch began as a jokingly named domain and small website before he quit investment banking to build a mobile app himself once he saw that most traffic and messaging behavior belonged on phones.
- He explains his approach to generating business ideas as deliberately thinking about personal problems, exploring alternatives and demand, and accepting that most successful businesses are iterations with a distinctive contribution.
- He describes learning to code by building Muzmatch’s core real-time chat functionality first, pushing through difficult debugging periods, and believing most people can learn engineering skills if they actually try and practice consistently.
- He outlines how Muzmatch grew over roughly a decade to millions of members and large numbers of reported “successes,” while repeatedly rebuilding the product—including a reset that forced users to recreate profiles—based on extensive user feedback.
- He discusses dating-app dynamics in the Muslim community, including male behavior issues, the challenges created by gender segregation, the role of platform rules/features in encouraging respectful conduct, and why looks and other practical criteria still matter in matching.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasMuzmatch started as banter, then a side project, then an app once mobile became the obvious medium.
He described Muzmatch’s origin as “many accidents”: workplace jokes about him being single led to buying the domain, then building a basic website because existing Muslim matchmaking sites felt “terrible,” and finally deciding it needed to be an app once he saw most traffic was mobile.
He executed by committing fully and learning to code through building the hardest core feature first.
He said he quit investment banking in 2014 with no real backup plan, taught himself app development by doing (starting with real-time chat), and built native iOS, Android, and the backend himself in roughly six months.
He frames idea generation as focused thinking about your own problems, then iterating on what already exists.
When asked how to come up with an idea, he argued people are too busy consuming media to think, and suggested intentionally listing personal problems you face and then exploring whether there’s a viable alternative and audience—even if others already do something similar.
He prioritizes major product resets when needed, even if it angers users, to move faster and improve stickiness.
He said the company has rebuilt the app multiple times and even forced a “start from scratch” reset in 2016, deleting prior matches, because taking short-term pain enabled faster progress and a dramatically better product based on thousands of user feedback items.
He sees a dating app’s job as setting behavioral tone and enforcing it, not just enabling matches.
He said Muzmatch has features intended to set norms and deter bad behavior (automatic swearing censorship, chaperone option, selfie verification, a pre-chat oath, and “Keep it halal” prompts), and that the team has blocked large numbers of accounts to enforce standards.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesWe're at an age now where knowledge is free and it's everywhere.
— Shahzad Younas
I genuinely think anyone can do anything.
— Shahzad Younas
I was in total control, and if this succeeded, fantastic. If it failed, it's on me.
— Shahzad Younas
I think my conclusion is guys are idiots.
— Shahzad Younas
I think we're slightly socially illiterate in some ways and we're playing catch-up.
— Shahzad Younas
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SPEAKERS
Ali Abdaal
hostHost of Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal, interviewing entrepreneurs and creators about building meaningful careers.
Shahzad Younas
guestFounder and CEO of Muzmatch (a Muslim dating/marriage app), with a background in investment banking and computer science.
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