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Deep Dive with Ali AbdaalLeading Psychologist: How To Finally Overcome Stress & Anxiety - Dr Julie Smith
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EPISODE INFO
- Released
- October 19, 2023
- Duration
- 1h 54m
- Channel
- Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION
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SPEAKERS
Dr. Julie Smith
guestClinical psychologist and author focused on practical tools for managing stress, anxiety, and emotional wellbeing.
Ali Abdaal
hostDoctor-turned productivity creator and host of Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal, author of Feel-Good Productivity.
EPISODE SUMMARY
In this episode of Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal, featuring Dr. Julie Smith and Ali Abdaal, Leading Psychologist: How To Finally Overcome Stress & Anxiety - Dr Julie Smith explores Dr Julie Smith on Managing Stress, Overthinking, Emotions and Burnout Dr Julie Smith explains that feelings are useful messages from the brain that should be held lightly rather than treated as facts or suppressed, and that mindfulness trains this skill like a gym for the mind.
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