Paul Brunson: "The 70/30 Body Shape Is Scientifically The Most Sexy" & THIS Predicts Divorce!

ℹ️ EPISODE INFO

Released

February 1, 2024

Duration

2h 11m

Channel

The Diary of a CEO

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📝 EPISODE DESCRIPTION

If you enjoyed this episode, I recommend you check out my first conversation with Paul Brunson, which you can find here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H4EYLof2_HU 00:00 Intro 02:14 What Do You Do? 05:52 What History Tells Us About Our Current Relationship Needs 10:07 Why Arranged Marriages Last Longer 15:05 Why 80% of Marriages Are Unsatisfied 20:14 Your Friends Know If Your Partner Is the One 21:19 Find Personal Satisfaction; It Determines Your Relationship's Outcome 24:35 Stop Expecting That Love Will Fix Your Life 27:34 Love Is Not Like The Movies 31:38 Why Men Are Struggling 37:36 The Golden Mean: The Ratio of Attractiveness 41:55 Find the Value You Bring to the Dating Market 46:17 The Premium Effect 53:20 Improving Low Self-Esteem 59:27 Older Generations in the Dating World 01:05:31 How to Go About Our Negative Traits 01:09:25 Does the Sex Ratio Matter? 01:15:02 How to Teach Your Children to Be in Successful Relationships 01:18:52 Concerns Around Child Rate Decline 01:25:40 Gen Z Knows What We Need to Sustain a Healthy Relationship 01:30:29 What Are the Different Attachment Styles in a Relationship 01:33:50 Our Attachment Style and Sex Patterns 01:39:37 What to Look for in a Relationship 01:48:35 Why Narcissists Are Attractive 01:49:48 Watch Out: 14% of the Population Are Psychopaths, Sadists & Narcissists 01:55:05 Red Flags in a Partner 02:01:09 The Four Horsemen 02:03:36 The Importance of Conflict Resolution 02:07:01 The Last Guest Question You can purchase Paul’s book, ‘Find Love’, here: https://amzn.to/49gGOFd Follow Paul: Twitter - https://bit.ly/49cXbmg Instagram - https://bit.ly/3u5JTcx Get tickets to The Business & Life Speaking Tour: https://stevenbartlett.com/tour/ Follow me: https://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo Sponsors: Huel: https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb

🎤 SPEAKERS

• Paul C. Brunson

  guest

• Steven Bartlett

  host

• Narrator

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🧾 EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of The Diary of a CEO, featuring Paul C. Brunson and Steven Bartlett, Paul Brunson: "The 70/30 Body Shape Is Scientifically The Most Sexy" & THIS Predicts Divorce! explores science Of Love: Choosing Partners, Beating Narcissists, Predicting Divorce Risks Paul C. Brunson, described as the world’s most influential matchmaker, unpacks decades of relationship science, his access to Tinder’s global data, and why partner choice is a literal life-or-death decision. He traces the evolution of relationships from survival-driven pairings to today’s self-actualization-focused partnerships, explaining why dating now feels more complex than ever. Brunson argues that many people are unsatisfied because they pick the wrong partners for the wrong reasons, overlook their own wellbeing, and underestimate the work required after the ‘happily ever after’ moment. He offers concrete frameworks—mate value, sex ratio, Carol Ryff’s wellbeing dimensions, attachment theory, Gottman’s Four Horsemen—to help people choose better partners, avoid narcissists, and build enduring, fulfilling relationships.

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