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Lots of us think screen time is a discipline problem.“My kid just wants more." “They don’t know when to stop.” "I need to set better limits.”But what if that’s not actually what’s going on?In this episode, Dr. Becky talks with science journalist Michaeleen Doucleff, author of Dopamine Kids, about the brain system driving kids’ behavior around screens—and why more screen time rarely leads to feeling satisfied.You’ll learn: - Why dopamine isn’t about pleasure—it’s about wanting - Why kids often feel worse (not better) after screens - Why willpower and strict limits don’t work on their own - What actually helps kids feel more regulated, fulfilled, and “done” This conversation will shift how you see your child—and give you a more effective, less stressful way to respond.If you’re ready to make changes around screen use in your home, Dr. Becky shares simple, practical scripts to help you get started—covering everything from removing devices from shared spaces to handling your child’s protest, whining, or tantrums. Find those scripts on the Good Inside blog: https://www.goodinside.dev/blog/4-scripts-changing-screen-time-rules/ Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinside Sign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletter For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast Thank you to our partners for making this episode of Good Inside possible! -Ole Henriksen: https://olehenriksen.com/collections/eyecare/products/banana-bright-eye-creme Use the code DRBECKY30 for 30% off the Banana Bright+ Eye Crème -Little Words Project: https://www.littlewordsproject.com/: Shop the Good Inside collab and use the code GOODINSIDE for 15% off -Hiya: https://hiyahealth.com/: Use the code DRBECKY for 50% off your first order -LMNT: https://drinklmnt.com/GOODINSIDE: Get a free sample pack at drinkLMNT.com/goodinside -Care.com: http://care.com/ For a limited time, you can use the code GOOD35 to save 35% on a Care.com Premium Membership* *Offer applies to initial term of Care.com membership subscriptions. Not applicable to add-on features or non-renewing access fees or services. Expires 4/26/26. Care.com does not employ or place any caregiver. Background checks are an important start, but they have limits. Visit www.care.com/safety

Michaeleen DoucleffguestDr. Beckyhost
Apr 7, 202629mWatch on YouTube ↗

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Released
April 7, 2026
Duration
29m
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Good Inside with Dr. Becky
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION

Lots of us think screen time is a discipline problem.“My kid just wants more." “They don’t know when to stop.” "I need to set better limits.”But what if that’s not actually what’s going on?In this episode, Dr. Becky talks with science journalist Michaeleen Doucleff, author of Dopamine Kids, about the brain system driving kids’ behavior around screens—and why more screen time rarely leads to feeling satisfied.You’ll learn:

  • Why dopamine isn’t about pleasure—it’s about wanting
  • Why kids often feel worse (not better) after screens
  • Why willpower and strict limits don’t work on their own
  • What actually helps kids feel more regulated, fulfilled, and “done”

This conversation will shift how you see your child—and give you a more effective, less stressful way to respond.If you’re ready to make changes around screen use in your home, Dr. Becky shares simple, practical scripts to help you get started—covering everything from removing devices from shared spaces to handling your child’s protest, whining, or tantrums. Find those scripts on the Good Inside blog: https://www.goodinside.dev/blog/4-scripts-changing-screen-time-rules/ Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinside Sign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletter For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast Thank you to our partners for making this episode of Good Inside possible! -Ole Henriksen: https://olehenriksen.com/collections/eyecare/products/banana-bright-eye-creme Use the code DRBECKY30 for 30% off the Banana Bright+ Eye Crème -Little Words Project: https://www.littlewordsproject.com/: Shop the Good Inside collab and use the code GOODINSIDE for 15% off -Hiya: https://hiyahealth.com/: Use the code DRBECKY for 50% off your first order -LMNT: https://drinklmnt.com/GOODINSIDE: Get a free sample pack at drinkLMNT.com/goodinside -Care.com: http://care.com/ For a limited time, you can use the code GOOD35 to save 35% on a Care.com Premium Membership* *Offer applies to initial term of Care.com membership subscriptions. Not applicable to add-on features or non-renewing access fees or services. Expires 4/26/26. Care.com does not employ or place any caregiver. Background checks are an important start, but they have limits. Visit www.care.com/safety

SPEAKERS

  • Michaeleen Doucleff

    guest

    Journalist and author of *Dopamine Kids*, focusing on kids, behavior, and modern dopamine-driven environments.

  • Dr. Becky

    host

    Clinical psychologist and parenting expert; host of the Good Inside podcast.

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of Good Inside with Dr. Becky, featuring Michaeleen Doucleff and Dr. Becky, What’s Really Going On: Why Screens Never Satisfy Kids | Dr. Becky explores why dopamine-driven screens leave kids craving, not truly satisfied Dopamine is framed not as pleasure but as the brain’s “do it again” system that creates craving, which can leave kids feeling worse after screens despite wanting more.

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