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KIM KARDASHIAN OPENS UP About Insecurity, Healing Your Pain, & Finding HAPPINESS | Jay Shetty

If you enjoy this episode, you'll also love my episode with Kendall Jenner! 👉 https://youtu.be/ZjIRYn7x8sk Kim Kardashian is an entrepreneur, business mogul, and producer. She first gained media attention in her appearances in the reality television series "Keeping Up with the Kardashians," which chronicles the personal and professional lives of her and her family members. Over the years, Kim Kardashian has built a successful brand, including beauty and fashion lines, and has become known for her influential social media presence. You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:55 When was the last time someone didn’t recognize you? 05:02 How often do you take a mental health check and have some time alone? 07:22 How do you manage a life in public with different personas? 09:38 Going out of your way to be of help and support someone in need 12:50 This is what genuine compassion can do for your personally and for others 16:25 Self work can be different for different people and that’s okay 18:02 Putting your own happiness first is a skill that can take time to learn 24:31 Surrounding yourself with people you trust is the best place to be in 29:05 With parenting, everyone says the days are long, the years are short 32:05 Parenting challenges is a lifetime commitment for every parent 36:32 Kids can ask difficult questions and this is how you can be more open to them 38:56 The journey of personal growth through helping other people 40:54 Kim explains that we all make mistakes and the second chance we get makes a huge difference 44:12 “I’ve never been hard on myself, but I am competitive with myself.” 47:03 How can positive peer pressure help you? 52:08 The warm welcoming presence always makes people comfortable and welcome 54:41 When you feel like you’re the worst mom, how do you cope? 01:00:10 Living a good life and being the best example for your kids 01:01:34 Kim on Final Five

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May 22, 20231h 3mWatch on YouTube ↗

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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Kim Kardashian on Choosing Happiness, Compassion, Parenting, and Second Chances

Kim Kardashian says she was a lifelong people pleaser who only learned around age 40 to follow her own happiness, and that opportunities opened up once she did.
She describes how her criminal justice reform work, which began with a case she saw on social media, deepened her empathy and made her far less judgmental.
She calls parenting four kids the most challenging and rewarding job, and says presence matters more than grand experiences, while she models passion and hard work, including studying law.
She stresses mutual respect, loyalty, and letting people grow at their own pace, noting that you can't force help or beliefs on people who don't want them.
In the Final Five, she names time and presence as the best advice, shares how repeated fire evacuations changed her view of material things, and says her one law would be second chances, fairness, and kindness.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Choosing yourself isn't selfish

Kim says she made decisions for others' happiness for years and only reached true confidence around 40. She describes putting herself first as protecting her heart, not disregarding others, and says opportunities followed.

Compassion means respecting people's pace of growth

Kim says you can't judge when people choose to grow, and that she doesn't expect others to be where she is on their own journey. Jay reframes this as compassion defined by patience.

Self-work looks different for everyone

Kim says her morning workouts and blasting music on the drive home are her self-work and meditation. She says there is no single right method and that she seeks help for parenting when she needs it.

Direct exposure to others' stories reduced her judgment

Kim says she once assumed people behind bars were guilty and had no compassion, but hearing backstories changed her. She now fights for second chances and judges others' lives less in general.

Presence matters more than big gestures in parenting

Kim says kids mainly want your time and will remember you being present. She says it's okay to not feel 100% as a mom because kids don't come with a manual.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

Kids, all they want is time. They just want your time. You can give them all these amazing big experiences, and they'll remember them and they're great, but they'll always remember you being present.

— Kim Kardashian

You have to let go of the idea of molding people into what you want.

— Kim Kardashian

Once you realize that this life really isn't about you and it's about helping as many people as you can, all these, like, doors open up for you and your mind just opens up.

— Kim Kardashian

There's no manual. They do not come with a manual. Everyone's doing the best that they can.

— Kim Kardashian

I think you just have to, like, sit back and do what works for you and move at your own pace and understand that it's okay that you're not at the same level as someone else.

— Kim Kardashian

Putting your own happiness firstCompassion as patience with others' paceJustice reform and second chancesParenting and mom guiltLoyalty and mutual respect in relationshipsLetting go of material attachmentBeing present and leading by example

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