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Lewis HowesHuman LIE DETECTOR (How to Read Anyone!) | Top Facial Expression Expert Annie Särnblad
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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Microexpressions reveal emotion: match face to words to spot deception
- Annie Särnblad explains microexpressions as involuntary, universal facial signals that can reveal emotions and help detect when someone’s words don’t match what they feel.
- She distinguishes facial expressions (universal and hardwired) from body language (more variable), arguing the face is the most reliable channel for reading emotional truth.
- She describes practical emotion cues—like chin puckering for vulnerability/empathy, cheek rise “smile bags” for genuine joy, and nasal “no” signals for disgust—to improve safety, connection, and decision-making.
- She discusses relationship risk signals, including how she believes narcissists show little kindness when others are hurt and may rely on intense eye contact and rehearsed phrases to charm.
- She says powerful leaders hire her to see hidden dynamics and protect themselves, but often end up confronting core people problems such as lack of honest feedback, delegation challenges, and the need to model healthy leadership.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasMicroexpressions are “deep listening” that reveal emotion when words don’t match.
She says microexpressions are involuntary physiological reactions that show what someone is feeling, and they often appear before conscious thought. Her core method is to look for mismatches between what someone says and what their face shows.
Facial expressions are universal; body language is more individual and culture-dependent.
She says facial expressions are hardwired and universal across cultures and even in people born blind, while body language varies more by person and culture. She frames this as why the face is a more reliable source than the body for reading emotion.
Facial cues are a prompt to investigate, not a guarantee of the underlying reason.
She describes reading someone’s underlying emotional response as a way to know where to ask follow-up questions, such as in business conversations where someone verbally commits but shows fear. She emphasizes she can read feelings, not thoughts, so facial cues point to “where to dig,” not definitive proof of a specific fact.
Reading faces improves both connection (empathy) and protection (safety).
She says the key benefits of mastering facial communication are empathy/connection and safety/protection: seeing discomfort or vulnerability allows you to adjust how you lead, teach, or relate, and also helps you avoid harmful or misaligned relationships.
Simple, repeatable facial markers can be trained to spot key emotions quickly.
She highlights specific markers she teaches as “one significant thing” per emotion: e.g., “nostril shadows” for disgust/“no,” “smile bags” (cheek rise) for real joy, and chin puckering for vulnerability/empathy. She also describes fear features like widened upper eyelids and the “rectangle mouth,” including a smaller “oh crap” version.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesMicroexpressions are the very deepest of listening skills
— Annie Särnblad
We would not survive as a species if this were not true.
— Annie Särnblad
I can't tell why. I don't know what you're thinking. I'm not a mind reader, I'm just a feelings reader.
— Annie Särnblad
We never hold our upper eyelids pulled way back except when we're nuts.
— Annie Särnblad
To love well and to be well loved. That's it.
— Annie Särnblad
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SPEAKERS
Annie Särnblad
guestFacial-expression and microexpression expert known for teaching practical lie-detection and behavior-reading skills.
Lewis Howes
hostHost of The School of Greatness podcast and interviewer/author.
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