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If You Want To BUILD SEXUAL DESIRE In A Relationship WATCH THIS! | Esther Perel & Lewis Howes

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Feb 3, 20161h 17mWatch on YouTube

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EPISODE INFO

Released
February 3, 2016
Duration
1h 17m
Channel
Lewis Howes
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION

💰 Get my NEW book, Make Money Easy! https://lewishowes.com/moneyyou 🔔 Subscribe for more great content: https://www.youtube.com/lewishowes https://lewishowes.com/gmyo - Get my NEW book The Greatness Mindset today! https://lewishowes.com/greatnessdelivered - Sign up for my FREE newsletter & get a dose of inspiration from our world-class guests, learn how to improve your life! Download podcast episodes a week early! http://www.lewishowes.com/pod Thank you for Watching this powerful interview with Esther Perel! New Interviews with the World's GREATEST Entrepreneurs, CEO's, Authors, and Minds will be posted every day! ----- Show notes: http://lewishowes.com/285 ----- Yes, we are talking about relationships again on The School of Greatness. Partly because I love learning as much as possible about how to create and maintain healthy, amazing relationships (and I need a lot of coaching in my love life). But partly because I heard today’s guest speaker at Summit at Sea in November and I knew I had to have her on the podcast. Esther Perel is a world-renowned relationship therapist, bestselling author, and sought-after speaker who has focused her career on exploring the role of sex and eroticism in making and breaking intimate relationships. She has an incredible world-view of relationships in many different cultures, which has allowed her to see what works and what doesn’t on a bigger level. I asked her a ton of questions in our interview and she had answers. You may already have set ideas about what intimate relationships should look like, but I know you’ll get some new perspective from listening to this interview. Get ready to get vulnerable with yourself as you take a look at your relationships in Episode 285 with Esther Perel. Time Stamps: 1:44 Esther speaks on her Family's history and struggles 7:01 Esther speaks on her Inspiration for her book/ Clinton Scandal 12:04 What goes wrong in relationships? 17:47 The History behind sexuality and desire 20:48 How to keep desire in a relationship 25:51 Experience love and desire at the same time 29:10 How to keep a relationship strong 34:55 History of Marriage 38:04 4 Pillars in Modern Relationships 40:20 Modern Love: Tradition and Innovation 43:02 Couples Retreat 44:57 Divorce: Take Away the Concept of Failure 51:46 LAT: Living Apart Together 53:10 Monogamy is the new frontier 58:51 Era of fulfillment and personal happiness 1:00:53 Choose Your Partner 1:03:20 How to Have a Thriving Relationship 1:06:46 Final Questions ----- You can follow Esther: https://www.estherperel.com/ https://www.facebook.com/esther.perel/ https://twitter.com/EstherPerel https://www.instagram.com/estherperelofficial/ ----- You can Follow Lewis here: Website: http://lewishowes.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LewisHowes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes/ TokTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lewis ----- Lewis Howes' New Book - The Mask of Masculinity https://lewishowes.com/man ----- Lewis Howes is a NY Times Bestselling author, entrepreneur, and former professional Arena League football player. He hosts The School of Greatness, a talk show distributed as a podcast. Learn and hear the stories of various successful people around the world, become inspired, motivated and educated with the SCHOOL OF GREATNESS. lewishowes.com/book You can follow me at: Website: http://lewishowes.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LewisHowes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lewis Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lewishowes/

SPEAKERS

  • Lewis Howes

    host

    Host of The School of Greatness podcast and interviewer.

  • Esther Perel

    guestGreat Minds guide

    Couples therapist and relationship expert, author of "Mating in Captivity" and creator of relationship courses including "Rekindling Desire".

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of Lewis Howes, featuring Lewis Howes and Esther Perel, If You Want To BUILD SEXUAL DESIRE In A Relationship WATCH THIS! | Esther Perel & Lewis Howes explores Esther Perel on Sustaining Desire, Modern Marriage, Divorce, and Monogamy Esther Perel describes how her parents' survival of concentration camps shaped her sense of impermanence and her drive to live a full, meaningful life.

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