A Sweet Conversation About Dying with Death Doula Alua Arthur | A Bit of Optimism Podcast

ℹ️ EPISODE INFO

Released

February 18, 2025

Duration

45m

Channel

Simon Sinek

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📝 EPISODE DESCRIPTION

Death is a word we like to avoid. We dance around the subject or use vague euphemisms to not hurt anybody. But what if being open about our deaths meant we could live happier lives? That’s where Alua Arthur comes in. Alua is one of the most prominent death doulas in the country, which means it’s her job to help people die. She offers support to her clients and their families as they embark on their dying journey, tackling everything from financial planning and insurance policy to emotional support and grief. When I sat down with Alua, I was prepared for a grim conversation. Instead, I was pleasantly surprised by her candor and good humor about dying. She shares with me how she made a career pivot from lawyer to death doula, the most interesting stories she’s heard from people on their death bed, and why thinking about our deaths is the key to living the way we wish to live. This…is A Bit of Optimism. For more on Alua and her work, check out: https://goingwithgrace.com/ @GoingwithGrace + + + Simon is an unshakable optimist. He believes in a bright future and our ability to build it together. Described as “a visionary thinker with a rare intellect,” Simon has devoted his professional life to help advance a vision of the world that does not yet exist; a world in which the vast majority of people wake up every single morning inspired, feel safe wherever they are and end the day fulfilled by the work that they do. Simon is the author of multiple best-selling books including Start With Why, Leaders Eat Last, Together is Better, and The Infinite Game. + + + Website: http://simonsinek.com/ Live Online Classes: https://simonsinek.com/classes/ Podcast: http://apple.co/simonsinek Instagram: https://instagram.com/simonsinek/ Linkedin: https://linkedin.com/in/simonsinek/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/simonsinek Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/simonsinek Simon’s books: The Infinite Game: https://simonsinek.com/books/the-infinite-game/ Start With Why: https://simonsinek.com/books/start-with-why/ Find Your Why: https://simonsinek.com/books/find-your-why/ Leaders Eat Last: https://simonsinek.com/books/leaders-eat-last/ Together is Better: https://simonsinek.com/books/together-is-better/ + + + #SimonSinek

🎤 SPEAKERS

• Simon Sinek

  host

  Author and speaker, host of the A Bit of Optimism podcast.

• Alua Arthur

  guest

  Death doula and founder of Going With Grace, focused on end-of-life planning and support.

🧾 EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of Simon Sinek, featuring Simon Sinek and Alua Arthur, A Sweet Conversation About Dying with Death Doula Alua Arthur | A Bit of Optimism Podcast explores death doula reframes mortality as guide to living fully Alua Arthur explains how she left law after burnout and grief, and how a chance conversation with a dying traveler plus her brother-in-law’s death led her into death doula work.

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