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Jay Shetty PodcastIf You Want To Find & Build The Perfect Relationship, WATCH THIS! | Jay & Radhi Shetty
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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Jay and Radhi Shetty on keeping love alive through growth
- Jay and Radhi Shetty discuss how they keep attraction and excitement alive after the honeymoon phase by prioritizing shared experiences and making deliberate effort toward each other.
- They describe maintaining connection during busy seasons or long distance by practicing quality-over-quantity attention and using time apart to invest in independence and self-relationship.
- They share small but revealing relationship friction points (like missing chargers and blunt creative feedback) to illustrate how they handle annoyance and honesty.
- They explain their differing approaches to sharing relationship content publicly, with Radhi preferring privacy and Jay sharing when it feels useful to others.
- They reflect on recent personal milestones, including Jay’s live show and book-writing process, Radhi’s Ayurvedic studies, and her work developing a restaurant menu.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasKeeping the “spark” takes intentional effort, not autopilot.
They describe sustaining attraction by making a conscious effort to go above and beyond for each other and by structuring time together so both people can have fun and express emotions in ways that fit them.
Long-term love requires noticing—and welcoming—your partner’s evolution.
Radhi says people change a lot year to year, and losing the spark can happen if you don’t pay attention to each other’s growth; Jay adds you have to fall in love with the “new person” rather than trying to keep them the same.
Feeling “unseen” can be eased by self-investment and flexible connection.
When one partner is absorbed in a priority or project, Jay describes using that time to invest in himself (exercise, friends, alone time), and both of them describe staying connected without rigid rules (voice notes, selfies, calls when possible).
Language that provokes reactions can quietly damage closeness.
They emphasize being careful with words because you live with your partner every day; Jay shares he stopped saying statements like he could “live without” Radhi because it pushes a partner away, even if not said meanly.
Honest feedback can sting, but it can also become a relationship strength.
Jay says Radhi’s blunt honesty sometimes hurts his ego in the moment, but he values it because it helps him make better creative decisions; Radhi describes Jay’s feedback about her procrastination as something that “hits home” because it’s true.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesWe change so much, and so you're kind of falling in love with a different person regularly if you're paying attention.
— Radhi Shetty
I feel like we're both able to love each other for who we are rather than who we want the other person to become for us.
— Jay Shetty
I actually love that feeling of missing her, and I also love that feeling of having time to really invest in my relationship with myself.
— Jay Shetty
You gotta be so careful with your words that you say to your partner because if you're saying something just to get a reaction out of them, or you're saying something to... It’s like being 16 again.
— Jay Shetty
A real gift is giving someone something they can't give themselves.
— Jay Shetty
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SPEAKERS
Radhi Shetty
guestWellness and relationship commentator; Jay Shetty’s partner, associated with Ayurvedic health counseling studies and lifestyle projects.
Jay Shetty
hostHost of the podcast On Purpose, guiding interview-style conversations on relationships, purpose, and wellbeing.
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