If You're SINGLE & Want To Find Love, WATCH THIS! | Stephan Speaks

Stephan says society wrongly teaches that love takes time, and that relationships needing months often reflect tolerance or attachment to invested time. He describes connection as the spirit recognizing its match, something you either have or don't.

He says connection brings chemistry automatically, while people who pick partners on logical compatibility often end up miserable. He believes connected couples often balance each other through differences, like yin and yang.

Stephan says fear from past relationships, not intuition, leads people to run, cheat, or return to an ex when they meet someone they truly connect with. He says healing depends on the work done rather than time passed.

He says the "take me as I am" mindset keeps people stuck. He gives examples such as a man needing to lead financially for a woman who wants a leader, and a woman tapping into femininity to attract a masculine man.

Stephan advises against making a profile all about what you want, using a negative tone, or using one photo or old photos. He recommends three to four current pictures including a full-body shot.