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Lewis HowesWHY SUCCESS Comes From MASTERING Your DARK SIDE | Robert Greene & Lewis Howes
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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Robert Greene on Channeling Dark Emotions, Failure, Fear, and Mortality
- Robert Greene describes his two-year recovery from a stroke as a daily struggle, driven by relentless effort, a refusal to give up, and a determination to write another book.
- He argues that failure and defeat teach more than success, citing his rejected first draft of The 50th Law, Napoleon's decline, and the need to stay future-oriented and see obstacles as opportunities.
- Greene says repressing emotions backfires, so people should confront their dark side and channel anger and ambition into work or a worthy cause, using the rider-and-horse metaphor for balance.
- He names getting inside other people's minds as the key skill for young people, along with preparation to calm insecurity and taking the first step to beat fear and doubt.
- He previews his next book, The Law of the Sublime, about opening the mind and facing mortality, and says people should embrace the coming change rather than resist it.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasAttitude shapes what you get from life.
Greene compares attitude to a camera lens and says a negative, defensive outlook crystallizes and shapes how others react to you, while seeing obstacles as opportunities changes the outcome.
Failure teaches what success cannot.
Greene says success breeds grandiosity and conservatism, citing Napoleon, while his own rejected 50th Law draft taught him to trust his style and ideas.
Be future-oriented and gain hindsight now.
Greene asks whether it could have been worse and what lesson can be learned, and says successful people look to the next project. Howes adds his own habit of imagining the lesson he will have learned a year later.
Confront your dark side rather than repress it.
Greene says repressed emotions erupt in uncontrolled ways, so you should understand them and channel their energy into work or a cause greater than yourself, as he did with his anger at Hollywood and as Martin Luther King did.
Balance emotion and reason like a rider with a horse.
Gripping the reins too tightly makes the horse rebel, while letting it roam leaves you without control, so you need to understand your emotions without repressing them or indulging them.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesDefeat or failure is the greatest thing that could ever happen to you.
— Robert Greene
The worst thing in life, the worst feeling of all, is to feel that you wasted your potential.
— Robert Greene
You need to understand your dark side, confront it, and make it work for you.
— Robert Greene
Any bad thing that fate brings you, you have to find a way, it's like alchemy.
— Robert Greene
The best thing is to be able to get inside the minds of other people. If you develop that skill, the sky's the limit.
— Robert Greene
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Author of The 48 Laws of Power and other bestselling books on strategy, power, and human nature.
Lewis Howes
hostHost of The School of Greatness podcast and interviewer on the Lewis Howes channel.
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