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BigDeal by Codie SanchezManipulation Expert: Success Isn’t Luck, It’s Rigged | Robert Greene
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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Robert Greene on Power, Seduction, Observation, Authenticity and Turning Adversity Into Fuel
- Greene says most people enter the work world naive, and that managing other people's egos and politics is most of the game, a lesson he learned after being fired from a television research job despite top output.
- He argues the most important skill is outward-directed observation, reading non-verbal signs, body language and gut feelings rather than the words people say.
- Greene calls authenticity a myth that swings in and out of fashion historically, and says seduction, mystery and strategic long-term thinking give power, while fear should be used only in small doses alongside likability.
- He says anti-seductive traits include talking too much, bragging, moralizing and vulgarity, and that keeping some mystery, in public life and in relationships, prevents people from taking you for granted.
- After a stroke and near-death experience, Greene is finishing a book on the sublime, and he describes adapting his writing process and embracing amor fati, saying he has no regrets.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasEgo management is most of the game early in a career
Greene says that making bosses look good and not threatening their ego matters more than doing excellent work, as his own firing despite producing the most stories showed.
Indirect communication can be more powerful than direct instruction
Using the Kissinger example, Greene says a hint like 'Is this the best you can do?' makes people reflect and improve rather than rebel or mimic.
Observe people instead of obsessing over yourself
Greene calls outward-directed observation the most important skill, noting that everything people do is a sign and that body language and gut feelings reveal more than words.
Authenticity is partly a performance
He says nobody is fully authentic, that perceived authenticity is roughly 40 to 50 percent real, and that history swings between valuing masks and valuing authenticity.
Think long-term and use your leverage
Greene contrasts 'tactical hell' with strategy, saying fear of using leverage signals weakness and invites tougher negotiation next time, and he cited Chuck Schumer's budget vote as an example.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesEgo, politics, playing to what, you know, making other people look good, that is 90% of the game, especially when you're starting out.
— Robert Greene
The most important skill that you can have in, in the work world, in the business world, and in life, is l- knowing how to observe people and not be so wrapped up in yourself and be outer-directed.
— Robert Greene
People can say anything they want to with words. In fact, they generally do. They never really exactly say what's on their mind.
— Robert Greene
Nobody is ever authentic. It's a myth.
— Robert Greene
The things that happen to you are the best things that could ever happen to you.
— Robert Greene
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SPEAKERS
Author of books on power and human behavior including The 48 Laws of Power and The Laws of Human Nature.
Codie Sanchez
hostHost of the BigDeal podcast and business investor/entrepreneur.
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