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Do memes help us judge reality?

If you’ve ever wondered what “skibidi rizz” means or why kids are so obsessed with the number 67, Adam Aleksic wrote a book on it. Aleksic, better known at @etymologynerd online, is a 24-year-old linguist known for his enlightening and entertaining videos on the origin of words. In this episode, the two Adams discuss Aleksic’s new book Algospeak and the ways in which the internet is shaping the way we communicate both on and offline. Aleksic sheds light on the origins of the seemingly meaningless “brainrot” memes popular with Gen Z and Gen Alpha internet users, and reveals the complex and (sometimes) profound insights they have to offer about culture, the transmission of ideas and information, and how our access to language can change the way we see the world. Host & Guest Adam Grant (Instagram: @adamgrant | LinkedIn: @adammgrant | Website: https://adamgrant.net/) Adam Aleksic (Instagram, TikTok, YouTube: @etymologynerd | Website: https://www.etymologynerd.com/) Join us in person at a TED conference: https://tedtalks.social/events Become a TED Member to support our mission: https://ted.com/membership Subscribe to a TED newsletter: https://ted.com/newsletters Follow TED! X: https://www.twitter.com/TEDTalks Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ted Facebook: https://facebook.com/TED LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ted-conferences TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tedtoks Podcasts: https://www.ted.com/podcasts The TED Audio Collective is a collection of podcasts for the curious. The TED Audio Collective videos may be used for non-commercial purposes under a Creative Commons License, Attribution–Non Commercial–No Derivatives (or the CC BY – NC – ND 4.0 International) and in accordance with our TED Talks Usage Policy (https://www.ted.com/about/our-organiz...). For more information on using TED for commercial purposes (e.g. employee learning, in a film or online course), please submit a Media Request at https://media-requests.ted.com.

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Jan 23, 20262mWatch on YouTube ↗

At a glance

WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Memes, media literacy, and AI deepen our reality judgment challenges

  1. Skibidi Toilet is framed as more than nonsense, functioning as a cultural text about surveillance, mediated perspective, and the “digital gaze.”
  2. Memes can be analyzed to reveal what a society fears, values, and normalizes, making them useful tools for understanding cultural influence.
  3. Deep media literacy is presented as essential for judging reality as convincing AI deepfakes become widespread and harder to detect.
  4. Algorithmic feeds are said to optimize for engagement rather than truth, shaping people’s perceptions even when they are not consciously consuming online content.
  5. TikTok and similar platforms are described as upstream “memetic nodes” that influence offline life—from products and music to fashion—regardless of whether someone uses the apps.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Treat memes as cultural documents, not just jokes.

Dissecting where a meme comes from and how it’s structured can surface underlying narratives about technology, power, and identity that reflect broader social conditions.

Perspective and mediation matter as much as content.

Skibidi Toilet’s “camera looking at camera” framing is used to illustrate how digital life trains viewers to experience reality through layered screens and surveillance-like viewpoints.

Media literacy is becoming a core life skill in the AI era.

As deepfakes get more convincing and more accessible, being able to question sources, incentives, and context becomes critical to deciding what’s real.

Algorithms don’t curate reality; they curate engagement.

Recommendation systems prioritize what keeps attention, which can systematically amplify distortion, outrage, or novelty over accurate representations of the world.

Even “offline” experiences are increasingly downstream of online meme ecosystems.

Products stocked, songs played in public, and styles people wear can be influenced by TikTok trends, meaning internet dynamics can shape daily life without direct app usage.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

I want that time back. Like, that, that added no value to my life.

Adam Grant

I think if we educate ourselves and have deep media literacy about the things we are looking at, we are better able to judge reality, and I think that is so, so important.

Adam Aleksic

It's about the, this digital gaze and how we interact with, uh, this hyper-mediated reality.

Adam Aleksic

It's going to be even more important moving forward as we are increasingly in this boundary of not knowing what is real.

Adam Aleksic

Algorithms don't recommend us the actual picture of reality. They recommend us what generates engagement.

Adam Aleksic

Skibidi Toilet as cultural artifactSurveillance and the panopticon metaphorHyper-mediated reality and the digital gazeMedia literacy through meme analysisAI deepfakes and synthetic media (e.g., Sora)Engagement-driven recommendation algorithmsOnline-to-offline memetic diffusion (TikTok influence)

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